On Wednesday when I picked Declan up from Kindergarten his teacher bent down to him sweetly and said, "Declan, what are we not going to say on Friday?" My heart hit my butt and he insisted he had no idea. I tried to figure out a way to explain that my 3 youngest use the phrase "stupid idiot" like "chocolate milk" when she said, "Remember, we are going to only say I CAN DO IT! or I WILL TRY!" WHEW. Declan had only pulled out the ol' "I caaaaaaan't" mantra, not anything else.